Huge changes. And when I say huge I mean HUGE.
A few days ago, I mentioned that I needed ya’ll to pray about some things with a major item on that list being where I was going to live. I believe my direct quote was that all the little things surrounding this decision of mine involved a tangled up web of a whole lot of details that had to fall perfectly into place.
Oh my goodness. I am SO excited about what I get to tell you right now.
I was praying for some very specific things. For example, I really wanted something fairly new and in a safe neighborhood. Check.
And even though it will seem silly, I asked God if I could have hardwood floors, too. Check.
But there was something very, very specific on my list on my list that mattered more than all of those petty things. I needed a place with three rooms, with one of them being a particular size and layout.
You see, I’m going to live in bedroom number one. And my new roomie, who will henceforth be known on the bloggy as Roomie, was going to live in bedroom number two.
Roomie and I were actually dorm roommates during one of our earliest years of college and have really missed each other as we went different ways to get our master’s degrees and start our careers (if you can call my dealings with PNC a “career”). We’ve stayed close and when Roomie let me know a few months ago that a big change was coming in her life, I somehow knew that our lives would be intersecting in the near future.
Because? Room number three? In about two months, it’ll be occupied by…
BABY!
I’m sharing this news with you with Roomie’s full permission and I should let you know now that it was at my request that she’ll be going by Roomie and that baby will be going by, um, Baby on the bloggy. There’s an awful lot of heartbreaking details surrounding this situation and you better believe I’ll be sheltering her from as much of the pain and judgment that others might like to inflict on her as I humanly can. I know you wouldn’t do that — and she knows it, too.
Now that you know my news, I’m sure it makes a bit more sense why I’ve been so stressed about the housing situation for the last month or so. It’s one thing to try to find something for you and a roommate to live in — but it is a whole new ballgame when there’s a baby in the picture.
I’ve also been spending a lot of time getting my heart prepared for the obvious changes that will be going on in my life. I’m very aware that this won’t be like “playing house” with a baby doll thrown in. And I know that the reality surrounding the situation will be very different from other 23 year olds’ realities.
But you know what? I’m not like other 23 year old girls. And when someone I love needs… well, love — it is my absolute joy to get to be part of that love. I’m in awe that God would allow me to get the opportunity to learn how to love better — first Roomie and eventually Baby.
I guess it all comes down to this: I spend quite a bit of time talking about how we should judge others when they make mistakes and how we need to love each other as Christ loves us and so forth. Those had better not just be statements I’m making on a stage while the spotlight is on me; they better ring very loudly in my private life, too.
A baby. Can you believe it? My heart is about to burst open at the seams.
Welcome to a whole new Ministry So Fabulous. I hope you’ll come along because? All you mommy bloggers out there? I’ll be needing to put you on speed dial. Stat.
Posted: July 16th, 2008 under Uncategorized.
Comments: 38
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Comment from Lisa @ The PW
Time: July 16, 2008, 9:57 pm
Do you have any idea how fun it is to decorate a nursery?
AB, I don’t think anyone could ever accuse you of loving in anything other than in Spirit and in Truth. I’m in awe of you my friend.
Many blessings on all THREE of you!
Comment from Jenni
Time: July 16, 2008, 10:14 pm
WHOA! What an incredible blessing of a situation (for you, Roomie, and Baby)!!!f How Exciting!
…. Have you told the little precious darling MacKenzie? How did Imaginary Boyfriend react to all of this?
Comment from Amy Beth
Time: July 16, 2008, 10:20 pm
@ Lisa - Roomie doesn’t have ANYTHING for the baby yet, so we will have fun — especially since Baby will arrive in just a few short months! 
@Jenni - I haven’t told MacKenzie yet, but she will be thrilled, of course. Imaginary Boyfriend took the news pretty well; I guess we won’t be making out in the living room anymore, huh? 
KIDDING, PEOPLE.
Comment from Karen
Time: July 16, 2008, 10:24 pm
I am so excited for you! So many wonderful changes, and more to come.
I’ve always believed that God puts certain people in our lives so that we can help them, or they can help us, when help is needed. Your situation sounds like another example of that. I predict that you and Roomie are going to have a tremendous, loving, fabulous time!
I feel the need to make a baby blanket and toss it into an box with some PNC and send it on down to you!
Comment from Beth
Time: July 16, 2008, 10:29 pm
Oh my word!!!!! I am so thrilled!!!!! GOd is soooo
sooooo
soooo
soooooooo
amazing!!!
fun to be a part of it just thru prayer!!!!!!!!!
Comment from Jennifer Miles
Time: July 16, 2008, 10:41 pm
Brandon and I have been praying for you, Roomie, and baby ever since our chat at Target.
Did you get my voice mail last night??
I like to paint… let me know if you need help getting the nursery ready! Oh! If you are allowed to paint at your place!
Comment from Flowerpot
Time: July 16, 2008, 10:49 pm
That is wonderful news, AmyBeth! I will continue to pray for all three of you.
praying,
Flowerpot
Comment from Shelly W.
Time: July 16, 2008, 10:56 pm
You have a beautiful heart, and I completely agree that if someone needs love, well, love them already. Good for you. I have teenagers and a 10-year-old, so if Roomie and Baby are still around then, just give a shout out!
Comment from Big Mama
Time: July 16, 2008, 11:20 pm
Oh you are in for a great adventure. You will be blessed beyond belief, I guarantee it.
Comment from Gayle
Time: July 16, 2008, 11:22 pm
How fun is that?!
Seriously, we need pictures of the new nursery.
She is very blessed to have a friend like you, A.B.
Comment from Kelly @ Love Well
Time: July 16, 2008, 11:25 pm
I see Jesus in you, Amy Beth. Seems to me He might have a special place in his heart for young, unwed, mothers-to-be.
I’m so proud of you, my friend. I’ll be praying — and standing ready for those speed dial calls.
Comment from Sarah
Time: July 16, 2008, 11:25 pm
Awesome Awesome Awesome!
Comment from Vicky
Time: July 17, 2008, 1:05 am
What an incredible honor to be able to share this time with your dear friend, Roomie!
I’m sooo looking forward to baby posts– you will have PLENTY of stories. My best friend is having a baby any day now, and I’m VERY excited. Oh how I love babies!
Comment from Kristen
Time: July 17, 2008, 2:51 am
Okay, when I can move in??? lol.
Roomie, welcome to the blog! Baby, welcome, welcome (when you finally arrive!) to our hearts!
Baby posts? Best Roomie posts? Needed love?
Oh, my. This blog keeps getting better.
Faith hitting the pavement, darling, there is nothing more beautiful.
YAY for big news!!!!
Comment from Bethany
Time: July 17, 2008, 2:55 am
Oh Amy Beth. Every time I think you couldn’t possibly get more beautiful, you prove me wrong. What an amazing woman you are.
You are working on a GORGEOUS crown in glory girlfriend. And isn’t God just awesome for putting someone like you in Roomie’s path?
Comment from Lisa @ put-it-on-the-list
Time: July 17, 2008, 3:59 am
A new baby — how much fun is that? Yes, lots of work, but lots of love too.
Congratulations and much love to you both. She will need your help and your strength.
Comment from Kelli
Time: July 17, 2008, 7:42 am
As a new mommy to a 3 month old, this post just brought me to tears. Happy tears. What you are doing for Roomie is going to mean more to her than you could ever imagine.
MANY prayers for you both!! Oh sweet snuggley babies are such a blessing!
Comment from Cindy
Time: July 17, 2008, 8:02 am
Oh my goodness! I am so excited! Your life is going to be so incredibly blessed you won’t be able to stand it!
And would you please pass on to Roomie that she ROCKS for carrying her baby?! You know God is so pleased with her for that. And I have a feeling that He is also pleased with you AGAIN! You’re amazing. You’d better cut this out or you’re going to be his favorite.
Starting to pray already. And my phone will be ready!
Comment from jenelle howe
Time: July 17, 2008, 8:25 am
wow AB this is sooo exciting!!!!! i cant wait to hear more in the coming weeks and months, all three of you are in my prayers! love you! miss you! cant WAIT to start stralite again in august!!!!! 
Comment from Shanda
Time: July 17, 2008, 8:42 am
As a single mom, you moved me to tears. I’m a firm believer that parenting alone is nearly impossible. My kids need others pouring into their lives on a daily basis, and I need others to lean on as well.
You are so very beautiful, and you truly inspire me.
Comment from Mandy
Time: July 17, 2008, 9:32 am
You can call me ANYTIME. I’ve got 3 of my own & was a nanny before I had them.
You must tell us if it’s a boy a girl (as soon as you know).
Also, are you going to be IN the room w/ her? Wow- that’s something to get prepared for!
Comment from Melody
Time: July 17, 2008, 11:14 am
God is preparing you. I know and feel that very strongly.
Comment from Kelley
Time: July 17, 2008, 11:20 am
WOW! What excitement!
Comment from Jenn @ Casa de Castro
Time: July 17, 2008, 11:30 am
Girl, you’re living out your faith, walkin’ the walk’ and allowing your actions to speak WITH your words. God must be smiling down at you as He looks at your heart. I know I’m smiling all the way over here in Texas. Roomie and Baby are in for some blessings, and I just know that you are, too. I’m asking the Lord to continue to rain down His riches from the storehouses of Heaven, and I absolutely can’t wait to hear the next installment of this story.
Roomie: We love you already and are praying for you in these last days before you deliver.
Baby: We can hardly wait to meet you!
AB: Love you still
Comment from Erica
Time: July 17, 2008, 12:12 pm
That is very exciting news. I’m praying for all 3 of you. By the way you’ve been tagged, see my blog for details.
Comment from Angela
Time: July 17, 2008, 12:32 pm
First time commenter…I’ve been lurking for a little bit. You seem like an amazing woman. Thank you for being a godly example of reaching out to those in need in big, huge ways! I am challenged by your generosity and huge heart.
Comment from Linds
Time: July 17, 2008, 1:48 pm
Wow! What an exciting time!
Comment from Ronnica
Time: July 17, 2008, 2:27 pm
You live such an interesting life! Not that I’m jealousy per se (I happen to like my life, too!), but it’s neat to be a part of it through the blog. I’m sure the next few months (years?) will be a challenging but exciting time!
Comment from Natalie @ I AM (not)
Time: July 17, 2008, 2:35 pm
My, my, my, you are in for a treat/ride/joy/baby throw up/poopy diapers…..tell Roomie, she will sleep again…I promise.
Comment from Christine
Time: July 17, 2008, 3:02 pm
You are so awesome! And our God is even awesomer! So awesome in fact I felt the need to make up a word! How wonderful for you and Roomie and Baby to be together and to make beauty come from ashes! God’s blessings on you all!
Comment from amykay
Time: July 17, 2008, 3:44 pm
if you guys need a girls night out and need a babysitter, feel free to ask! i mean, it would be a bit of a commute. but i’m really available and not kidding.
SO excited for you. i know there are probably a lot of big hard decisions and situations you’re both facing right now, but what a trip to be part of one of God’s weird adventures, huh? can’t wait to hear more!!
Comment from Melissa
Time: July 17, 2008, 6:42 pm
OHHHH AB, How exciting!!!! Can you at least tell us boy or girl, so that we can have an impromptu shower??? I would love to send a gift! You are doing amazing things!!! I am sure that God is enthralled by your beauty…..as well as with your new roomie!!! Psalm 45:11 What a precious friend you are!!!
Comment from kellie
Time: July 17, 2008, 7:21 pm
This is awesome! I am so glad that God has worked everything out so perfectly!
What a blessing for all three of you to have each other!
Yes, there may be some tough spots here and there, but there will be a lot more joy too!
Comment from debbie d.
Time: July 17, 2008, 11:32 pm
should I be making blue things or pink things??? is it a baby girl or a baby boy?????
Comment from Elizabeth…MommyETC
Time: July 18, 2008, 12:36 am
Founds you over at Rachel at Unexpected Blessings.
How very exciting for your roomie…no matter what the situation…babies are ALWAYS a blessing. You are such a good friend!
Glad to meet you!
Comment from Julie Todd
Time: July 19, 2008, 5:59 pm
I remember when my neice got pregnant. She was not married.
She was a young, and had been attending church with us. We met with our pastor to just sorta talk all this out, at her request. I will never forget his words. He looked her straight in the eye and said something to the affect of “this baby is not an accident, it is a gift.” WOW, WHAT? I’d never heard that. But it’s true. The scriptures say that children are a blessing from God. HE formed this baby. It is HIS for HIS purposes. It may not have been conceived in the way He would want it, but that does not curse the baby. When he shared all that I was able to see through different eyes.
God will be there every step of the way for it is HE who formed this little one in her womb.
Many blessings to you both.
Julie
Comment from jmom
Time: August 28, 2008, 3:48 pm
My sister had a baby at 19 out of wedlock. Watching the looks and the judgment she felt changed me forever. Blessings to you in your decision to roll up your sleeves and love her like Christ would. Cannot wait to read more about it!
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